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Long Meetings With ADHD: How to Stay Engaged Without Melting Down

Nerdyssey January 26, 2026
ADHD

Long Meetings With ADHD: How to Stay Engaged Without Melting Down

Long meetings overload ADHD attention. Use pre-briefing, active note systems, movement cues, and follow-up scripts to stay present and extract action items.

How to survive long meetings with ADHD


Professional note: This article provides education and tools related to behavior and life systems. It is not a diagnosis and not personalized treatment. If your symptoms are severe enough to affect work, life, or you have severe depression or self-harm thoughts, you should talk to a professional immediately.

Key Takeaways 

1. Set your own outcome before the meeting

If you don’t define your own goal, your brain will drift along with everyone else in the room and you’ll walk out confused about what you are supposed to do next. Just writing one line like “What do I need to walk out of this meeting with?” can flip it from “gritting my teeth through it” to “going in to collect what I came for.”

2. Active note-taking keeps your brain anchored (don’t transcribe every word)

Taking notes in two columns (what you heard / so what–action–questions) means your brain doesn’t have to race to capture every sentence, but can focus on what you’ll actually need after the meeting. It also makes it much easier to get back into the topic if you’ve zoned out for a moment, because you have a “rail of meaning” to grab onto, not just scattered sentences.

3. Tiny movements during the meeting reduce fatigue and stop your brain from escaping

Tensing–releasing muscles, changing posture, sipping water, standing up for a moment — these micro-movements help blood flow and wake your brain up without needing your phone. If you forbid yourself from moving at all, your body will find its own way to discharge that energy, which usually ends in opening another tab instead of coming back to the work.

4. When you zone out, use questions/summaries to come back instead of yelling at yourself

Instead of sitting there mentally beating yourself up for spacing out, use “bridge questions” like asking to confirm the conclusion or clarify the next step/owner to pull yourself right back to the substance. Other people will see it as you helping to structure the meeting more clearly, rather than “failing to keep up.”

5. End every meeting with a 3-minute action capture so tasks don’t vanish

The 3 minutes right after a meeting are golden for pulling Decisions / Actions / Questions out of your head before working memory wipes everything. Once you add a short follow-up and send it to the team, you don’t have to carry all the remembering alone, and you massively reduce the chances of “we just met for an hour and nobody really knows what they’re supposed to do.”

Why long meetings are a stress test for ADHD

Long meetings are brutal for an ADHD brain because they combine pretty much everything we’re least good at into one room, then shut the door and tell us, “Don’t get up, don’t drift off, and don’t miss any key points, okay?”

For an ADHD brain, real focus tends to work best with short, clear tasks that have a decent level of excitement. Most long meetings are the opposite: drawn-out, slow, monotonous, and with nothing that “forces immediate action” in that very moment. So the brain doesn’t know what to latch onto.

The same voice droning on in the same tone for 30–60 minutes or more makes the brain feel like it’s listening to white noise with random words mixed in. The fewer slides or visuals there are, the more an ADHD brain feels like “listening to a radio station with a bad signal.”

Attention drift in ADHD is not “disrespecting the meeting.” It’s a brain system that, when exposed to the same stimulus for too long without any “emergency” or “new thing” coming in, automatically starts scanning for something that gives more dopamine — like reaching for your phone, opening another tab, or getting lost in your own thoughts.

While you’re trying to listen, the meeting is also dumping chunks of information on you with no clear structure. That forces your working memory to work way too hard: holding temporary information, decoding it, assessing whether it affects you, and trying to store it for later. 

For an ADHD brain, where working memory is more fragile than average, this is like “carrying a load that’s too heavy” from around minute 10 onwards.

When information keeps streaming in but isn’t being converted into a checklist or concrete actions, the brain starts to feel like, “There’s a lot, but I don’t know what to grab first.” That overloaded feeling is fertile ground for ADHD paralysis — you feel tired, anxious, and tempted to escape into other thoughts because that’s less exhausting than staying with unstructured overload.

Another factor is low stimulation + high boredom. Many meetings are about “systems / processes / policies,” which don’t come with a built-in dopamine jackpot. 

Without any immediate reward, an ADHD brain that craves rhythm, decisions, and doing things will start asking, “Why am I even sitting here?”

A lot of meetings also love vague phrases like

“let’s talk ideas” 

or 

“let’s just align today” 

without saying what we actually need to walk out of the room with. 

For an ADHD brain that uses a “picture of the endpoint” as a focus anchor, the lack of a clear outcome is basically the room saying: “If you want to drift off and think about other stuff, be my guest.”

While they’re listening for a long stretch, ADHDers are burning energy on social masking — acting like they’re listening the whole time, nodding at intervals, keeping their facial expression appropriate, waiting for a good moment to speak without interrupting. 

All of that quietly eats executive function. By the time the meeting ends, it often feels like their mental battery is done for the day.

In in-person meetings, the brain also has to police the body: don’t fidget too much, don’t scrape the chair, don’t click the pen and annoy people. Trying to restrain yourself like this for one or two hours makes you feel more like you’re 

“playing a polite character” 

than being your natural self who focuses better when allowed to make small movements or posture shifts.

ADHD work flow also tends to get wrecked by long meetings. As soon as you finally drop into a groove with your work — ping, you’re called into a meeting. 

After 1–2 hours in there, your brain is too tired to go back to deep work. That’s why so many people feel like, 

“The whole day was just meetings, and I don’t feel like I actually got any real work done.”

It’s even worse with meetings in awkward mid-day slots like 11:00–12:00 or 15:00–16:30. You can’t start anything deep before them, and you’re too drained to start anything meaningful afterward. 

An ADHD brain feels like the day’s been chopped into little chunks that are too small to do deep work in any of them.

Another challenge: many meetings are audio-only communication. No visuals, no examples, no diagrams. Or if there are slides, they’re packed with text bullets instead of highlighting key actions.

 An ADHD brain, which is much more comfortable with visuals and structure, has to use extra fuel to “build the picture in its head” based purely on spoken explanations — which is harder work than for most people.

Then there’s the social pressure layer. Many ADHDers are terrified of being seen as “not interested / not focused / unprofessional,” so they clamp down on themselves to sit still, not move too much, not ask for a break, and not ask people to repeat. But replaying things clearly is exactly what would help both them and the team.

On top of that, many ADHDers are highly sensitive to perceived rejection or criticism (RSD – Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria). So if they zone out or ask something twice and sense people getting annoyed, the emotional weight they carry gets way heavier. 

That turns the meeting into a space that’s exhausting mentally and emotionally at the same time.

To make it worse, long meetings rarely have checkpoints like, “We’re in this phase of the discussion now / there’s about this much left / we’re close to wrapping up.” 

An ADHD brain feels like being on a train with no idea where the final station is or when you’ll get off. No sense of time boundaries = more exhaustion.

And here’s another truth people don’t say out loud: in many meetings, only around 30% of the content truly involves us. There may be long stretches that are about other teams, but we still sit through everything out of politeness. 

For an ADHD brain, having to attend closely to something that “doesn’t directly involve me” for a long time is the secret recipe for zoning out beyond rescue.

Once you’ve drifted off, guilt shows up: 

“What did they just say?” 

“Did I miss something important?” 

“How can I tune back in without looking obvious?” 

These thoughts drain mental resources on top of everything else — even though most people in the room are also spacing out in patches without admitting it.

Some meeting cultures also come with strong power dynamics — an intimidating boss, one person dominating the conversation, or active blaming going on. That ramps up the threat detection system in an ADHD brain, so a chunk of focus goes into “reading the room / avoiding getting blamed” instead of processing the content.

In short, long meetings bundle all the ADHD triggers into one: forced stillness, monotonous voice, long unstructured info, vague outcomes, social pressure, and the tendency to chop up your workday. No wonder so many people feel like, “One hour in a meeting = as tiring as three hours of real work.”

It’s absolutely crucial to understand that this does not mean you “have no discipline” or “can’t bother listening to others.” It’s a systemic limitation of your brain that requires more fuel than average in this context. Without “assistive tools” or “support systems,” of course it’s going to fall apart.

Think of it like this: someone who’s nearsighted being told to stare at distant slides for an hour without glasses would end up with headaches, stress, and blurry vision. Saying they “weren’t paying attention to the slides” isn’t exactly fair. 

An ADHD brain in a long meeting is similar: if you don’t have the “focus glasses” of proper systems, things will be blurry, you’ll drift, and you’ll be exhausted — and that’s normal.

The good news is, once you understand that “the test environment isn’t designed fairly for your brain,” you can stop blaming yourself and start asking, 

“Okay, if the field is built like this, how do I prepare tools + systems so I can play this game in my own ADHD style and still survive?” 

That’s exactly what the before–during–after meeting techniques you’ll be writing about are meant to do.

Before the meeting: 5-minute brain prep

The “before the meeting” window is actually the easiest place to control the game, but people tend to skip it because they feel like, “I’ll just figure it out in the room.” For an ADHD brain, that’s the fast track to disaster. 

Once you’re inside, getting hit by information + multiple voices + social dynamics, your brain flips into survival mode, not structured-thinking mode. 

Spending just 5 minutes before the meeting is like laying down tracks so your brain knows what it’s going in there to do, instead of being thrown blind into a dark room.

Think of these 5 minutes as a personal pre-brief that answers:

What am I going in there to do? 

What do I need to come out with? 

How will I stop myself from drifting? 

And if I do drift, where’s the rail I’ll climb back onto?

1) Set an Outcome Target (30 seconds)

This step is like asking your brain directly: “Okay, we’re about to spend 60–90 minutes of our life in that room. What do we need to walk out with to make it worth it?”

Write this down as a single sentence, not just floating in your head. ADHD brains forget fast. Ten minutes into the meeting, your internal outcome tends to devolve into “When does this end?” instead.

A good Outcome Target should be something tangible, not a vague line like “understand the big picture.” 

Try changing it to things like:

  • “Get a clear timeline for when project X will be finished and who owns each phase.”
  • “Decide between path A or B for the new feature.”
  • “Collect at least five key requirements from team Y before we end.”
  • “Walk out with at least three personal action items for myself.”

If you’re a manager, your Outcome Target might be more about syncing the team, such as:

  • “Confirm that everyone shares the same priorities for this sprint.”
  • “Identify 2–3 major risks that could break the deadline and assign owners for each.”

The key is that the Outcome Target belongs to you, not just the meeting organizer. If the organizer says the purpose is “to share project status updates,” you can layer your own outcome on top, like: 

“I’ll use this meeting to clarify what dependencies my part of the work has on other people.”

For an ADHD brain, the Outcome Target acts like a magnet for your attention. When you drift off into other thoughts, you can look back at that one line and instantly remember which part of the conversation you should care about and which parts you can afford to let fade into the background. 

You don’t need to be at 100% focus the whole time — just focused on the right parts.

2) Speed-check the agenda (60 seconds)

Checking the agenda isn’t just a formal step; it’s like sneaking a look at the script for what your brain’s about to be hit with. You want to look at two dimensions: content, and energy required.

First, scan through the topics and ask yourself for each one:

“Does this affect me directly? Do I need to speak or just listen? Is this a place where I can ask something that helps my own outcome?”

For anything that clearly involves you, mark it — star ⭐ it or highlight it. Those are the moments where you need to be fully awake. 

A one-hour meeting might only have 15–20 minutes that really impact your work. Knowing that ahead of time lets you save your energy and deploy deep focus at the right moment.

Second, estimate energy by the agenda labels:

  • If a block says “discussion / open floor / brainstorm,” assume it may drag on. You’ll want your questions and positions ready.
  • If it’s a long “update/status” section where you’re not the main owner, decide in advance: “Okay, during this section I’ll use active notes and light movement so I don’t drift.”

If you don’t see any agenda beforehand, don’t just guess. Take less than a minute to politely ask for it — that actually helps the whole team, not just you. For example:

“So I can prep the right info, could I have a quick agenda or expected outcomes for this meeting?”

Often just you asking means everyone else gets the agenda too, which cuts the chaos for the whole room. For your ADHD brain, that’s like turning a “dark room” into a “room with a floor plan,” so you’re not terrified of being randomly put on the spot.

A small extra trick: write an approximate time next to each item, e.g. Topic 1 (10 mins), Topic 2 (20 mins). It helps your brain feel like there are checkpoints instead of being trapped in a meeting pit with no sense of where you are.

3) Prepare 2 questions in advance (60–90 seconds)

For an ADHD brain, pre-written questions are hooks that keep your mind from floating off. Expecting yourself to come up with sharp questions on the fly in the middle of the meeting only adds load to your working memory, and you may freeze because you’re tired or anxious.

Break your pre-questions into easy categories and pick at least two:

Outcome / Definition of Done
These stop meetings from ending with “Wait, what was the actual point again?”

  • “What’s our definition of done for this work, for our team?”
  • “From the boss’s/client’s perspective, what has to happen for them to see this as ‘done well’?”

Decision
These stop the meeting from being just a storytime for updates.

  • “What decisions do we need to walk out of here with today?”
  • “If we can’t decide right now, what criteria will we use to decide?”

Owner / Next Step
These keep things from ending in vague promises that evaporate.

  • “From here, who’s the owner of each task, and what’s the rough timeline?”
  • “What’s the concrete next step this week, and who does it get passed to?”

Risk / Constraint
These keep everyone from being unrealistically optimistic.

  • “What risks or constraints do we see that might stall this plan?”
  • “What’s the one thing that, if we don’t get it or it’s delayed, will impact everyone the most?”

Preparing questions doesn’t mean you must ask them all. It means you have a mission in the meeting, so it doesn’t feel like you’re just sitting there watching the clock. You’re watching for the right moment to drop your question to pull the discussion back toward the outcome you set.

If you’re someone who doesn’t like speaking in the room, you can use the same questions after the meeting — send a message to your manager or the organizer, summarizing what you understood and embedding these questions. It looks very professional as a follow-up.

4) Get your Note Template ready (60 seconds)

For someone with ADHD, telling yourself “I’ll just open a note once I’m in there” usually means the first 5–10 minutes of the meeting vanish. You’re busy hunting for files, opening apps, picking pages, and deciding how to take notes.

Much better to prepare the page structure beforehand so your brain only has to fill content, not design the layout.

First, decide your medium for today:

  • If you focus better writing by hand, have a dedicated notebook for “Meeting Notes” and pre-allocate a page for this meeting.
  • If you’re on a laptop/tablet, open a new doc or sheet and give it a clear name from the start, e.g., 2026-01-23_Marketing Sync.

Then create a skeletal structure for your brain:

  • Top line: meeting name + date + key people/teams involved.
  • Next line: your own Outcome Target (written big and visible at the top so it can keep nudging you all meeting long).
  • Middle section: a two-column notes table — “What I heard / So what–Action–Question.” No need to overdo layout; just draw a vertical line or leave a margin on the right.
  • Bottom section: a small block labelled Action (after meeting) with at least 3–5 lines reserved.

The point of having a template is that when the meeting starts, you don’t burn energy on “how should I take notes?” Your executive function, which is already slower, can use its power to translate what you hear into meaning and action instead.

For ADHD, having all Meeting Notes pages look similar, with a repeated structure, makes going back later so much easier. 

You won’t be decoding chaotic handwriting and random scribbles trying to guess what was important and what was noise.

If you’re using digital notes, make a permanent Template file and just duplicate it for each new meeting, then rename the heading. That significantly reduces friction.

5) Create a “Movement Plan” (30–60 seconds)

This is the part most people never think about, but it’s crucial for an ADHD brain. One of the main problems is having to sit still for too long, which traps energy in your body until it bursts out in less controlled ways — scrolling your phone, switching tabs, obsessively clicking pens.

A Movement Plan is giving yourself permission to move in a structured way before you go in, so you’re not improvising movement that derails your focus.

Pre-decide a few simple movement checkpoints, like:

  • Around minutes 10–15: change posture, gently straighten your back, roll your shoulders once, look across the room for 5 seconds.
  • Around minutes 20–25: take a sip or two of water and lightly tense–release your thighs/calves under the table.
  • If the meeting is longer than 45 minutes, especially online: plan to stand up for 1–2 minutes during a time when you don’t need to speak much.

In online meetings, you can be more flexible:

  • Intentionally switch from sitting to standing every ~15 minutes.
  • Walk slowly in place just outside camera view.
  • Use a reclining chair and change the angle of your body every 15–20 minutes.

All of this improves blood circulation and reduces the blur/brain fog that usually hits mid- to late-meeting.

For in-person meetings where etiquette matters more, the Movement Plan needs to be subtler, such as deciding that every 10 minutes you will:

  • Switch which leg is crossed.
  • Wiggle your toes, tensing–releasing gently.
  • Roll a pen quietly between your fingers without clicking it.
  • Stretch your fingers or wrists subtly.

By pre-planning, when you feel the urge to move, your brain doesn’t have to figure out “what should I do?” on the spot. You just follow the script you already wrote. 

That reduces the chance of grabbing your phone “just for a second” and ending up spiraling into unrelated stimulation outside the meeting.

Put another way, a Movement Plan is telling yourself: 

“I’m going to take care of my body so it doesn’t get so uncomfortable that it starts looking for escape in random ways.” 

Once your body isn’t over-tensed, your brain has a better chance of staying with the actual content.

To sum up this whole section:

If you spend just 5 minutes before the meeting doing these 5 steps, you shift from entering the meeting as someone “waiting for things to be thrown at them” to going in with “rails for your brain to run on, handles to grab, and planned rest stops.” 

For someone with ADHD, that’s a world of difference between a day of meetings that drains you dry and a day of meetings that’s tiring but still leaves you feeling, “Okay, at least I got what I needed, and the follow-up work won’t slip through my fingers.”

During the meeting: 6 ways to not lose the plot

The “during the meeting” phase is where ADHD brains tend to slip the most, because the stimulus is constant: same person, same topic, same tone over and over. 

Once a meeting goes past 30–60 minutes, your brain starts asking, “Is there anything more interesting than this?” and begins hunting 

  •  in your head (other thoughts) 

or 

  • outside (phone, tabs).

The strategy here isn’t to “force yourself to listen 100% of the time,” because that’s the fast lane to burnout. It’s to rig the environment so you have something to do that’s on-topic while the meeting is happening, so you still get dopamine, and your brain doesn’t feel imprisoned.

These 6 techniques aren’t about turning you into a star listener. They’re about tying yourself to the important substance in the most forgiving way possible, without fighting your own wiring.

1) Two-Column Active Notes (keeping your brain in the work)

A lot of people take meeting notes like they’re doing a transcript: whoever says what, they write it all down. You end up with a full page, but you don’t know which parts are key points and which parts are fluff. Worse, your brain is exhausted from racing to keep up with the words, leaving no room to think about 

“So what do I need to do with this?”

For an ADHD brain, this is a nightmare. Working memory is trying to do two things at once: hold onto words + interpret them, while your hand just scrambles to copy noise without the brain being able to process.

Two-column active notes fix this by giving each column a different job:

  • Left column: What I heard / Key points — what was said, the topics coming up.
  • Right column: So what? / Action / Questions — how this relates to you, what you need to do next, what isn’t clear.

Examples:

  • Left: “Team A says work will be done by end of month.”
    Right: “End of month = what date exactly? → need a clear date / what do I have to deliver to them before that?”
  • Left: “Client wants a real-time notification feature added.”
    Right: “Does this impact the current backlog? → if yes, need to talk to dev about what gets pushed / I need to collect more requirements?”

The crucial thing is: don’t let the left column be way longer than the right. If the left side fills the page and the right side is almost empty, you’re still taking “listener-only notes” instead of thinking, “How will I use this?”

Another bonus of two columns: if you drift out for a bit, you can look at the right column to find your way back, because that’s where the actions and questions are. You don’t have to re-listen or re-read everything to catch up.

Small supporting tricks:

  • Use prefixes on the right side, for example:
    • A: = Action
    • Q: = Question
    • D: = Decision
      e.g., A: send updated numbers by Friday or Q: scope of phase 2 still unclear.
  • In online meetings, try doing your two-column notes in Notion / Google Docs / OneNote and leave the right column blank initially, then intentionally fill it with “So what?” as you go.
    That forces your brain to process instead of just typing whatever it hears.

Active notes are you telling your brain, 

“We’re not here just to listen; we’re here to extract what we need.” 

Once you define the job clearly, an ADHD brain has a much better chance of holding onto what matters, even if it doesn’t catch every second.

2) “Bookmarking” when you zone out (no need to hear every second)

Here’s the painful truth: no matter how well you prep, an ADHD brain will drift. Trying to capture every single word is a bad use of your mental energy.

The real problem isn’t that “you drifted.” It’s that once you realize you’ve drifted, you start yelling at yourself in your head:

“Here we go again, I spaced out, I’m so stupid.”

Once that loop starts, your brain spends more energy on self-blame than actually getting back into the meeting.

Bookmarking is about accepting, “Okay, zoning out is normal,” but still dropping a save point so you can rejoin easily later.

Two simple ways:

  • On digital notes: when you realize you’ve been off in your own thoughts for a bit, type <<lost>>

    or *** in your notes with an approximate timestamp, e.g. <<lost 10:25>>.
  • On paper: write the last word you caught, like “timeline?”, “budget?”, “phase 2?”, and underline it.

Why does this help?

  1. It breaks the self-blame spiral. Instead of “I zoned out again,” you take a small, constructive action. Your brain shifts from “insulting” to “handling it.”

  2. If the meeting was recorded or slides are shared afterward, you’ll know exactly where you were gone and can rewatch just that stretch instead of the whole hour.

  3. If you need to ask someone, you can be specific:

“Could we recap the timeline part from around 10:25 again? I couldn’t quite keep up at that point.”
That sounds much more focused and serious than “I missed a bit back there, what was the conclusion again?”

Bookmarking isn’t giving up on the meeting. It’s you deciding, 

“I don’t need every second — I’ll just make sure I can recover the important parts.” 

Perfect for a brain that isn’t built to stick with identical stimulus indefinitely.

3) Micro-movements within the rules (less fatigue, more oxygen)

An ADHD brain quietly leans on small movements to stay awake. If you force yourself to sit rock still for 60–90 minutes, your body starts rebelling. Your brain then tries to escape by channeling that energy into uncontrolled actions — turning the whole page into doodles or reaching for your phone without realizing.

Micro-movements are permission to move in ways that don’t disturb others but still boost blood flow and give your brain quick resets.

In a real meeting room, micro-movements can be:

  • Tensing–releasing your calves/thighs slowly under the table (squeeze → relax) 5–10 times.
  • Changing posture: from leaning back to sitting upright, or shifting your weight from left to right.
  • Slowly rotating your ankles under the table.
  • Taking tiny sips of water and using that moment as a micro-reset to look away from the screen/slides for 2–3 seconds.
  • Gently stretching your neck, tilting side to side, or rolling your shoulders once when people are changing slides or during laughter.

In online meetings, you get more freedom:

  • Switch between sitting and standing by adjusting the camera to only show your upper body.
  • Step in place slowly or shift your weight from foot to foot just outside camera frame.
  • Recline your chair and slightly change angle every 15–20 minutes.

The core rule: move to focus, not move because you’re bored. If you notice the movement becomes a new obsession (e.g. you’re so absorbed in spinning the pen you’re watching the pen more than listening), it’s no longer a micro-movement — it’s a distraction. Scale back.

You can also create a “secret signal” for yourself: every time you hear words like “to summarize,” “finally,” or “so…” you quickly check your posture, do a micro stretch, then read one line from your right-hand note column. That gives you little resets without needing timers.

4) Permissioned fidgets (professional-level fidgeting)

Many ADHDers use fidgets as a grounding wire, but they’re afraid of looking childish or being seen as not listening, so they force themselves not to use any. Without a safe outlet, their hands go for worse options — phone, mouse, extra tabs.

You don’t have to stop fidgeting; you just need to choose fidgets that match the work environment.

Meeting-friendly fidgets:

  • A simple ring you can spin.
  • A good pen that doesn’t click loudly (or a twist-cap pen instead of a clicker).
  • A small piece of soft putty/clay you can squeeze under the table.
  • A smooth stone or bead you can roll between your fingers.

Fidgets to avoid:

  • Anything that clicks (noisy fidget cubes, click-pens, pop-its, etc.).
  • Anything visually flashy, like shiny spinners that reflect light.
  • And the big one: your phone. Once that’s in your hand, you’re not just fidgeting; you’ve opened a doorway to another world that will eat all your dopamine.

Think of a good fidget as something that “keeps your hands busy while your brain stays in the meeting.” If at any point you realize you’re more focused on the toy than on the conversation, your fidget is too loud (in your brain) — scale down.

If your team culture is fairly open and someone comments, you can be casually honest:

“I use small hand movements to help me focus. If it’s ever distracting, just let me know.”

Most people will see it as a productivity hack rather than unprofessional. Especially if they see you asking good questions, taking real notes, and sending follow-ups — not zoning out.

5) “Engagement Hooks” that give your brain a role

If you enter a meeting with the mindset “I’m an audience member,” your ADHD brain will channel-hop the moment it gets bored. 

But if you tell your brain, “I have a mission in this room,” your attention shifts toward looking for information that serves that mission.

Engagement Hooks are about setting one job for your brain per meeting, instead of trying to capture everything and ending up with nothing.

Pick one (or at most two, for really crucial meetings):

Mission A: Hunt for decisions

– What has been “actually decided” today?
You’ll jot down sentences that sound like “So let’s do this…,” “We’ll go with…,” “Okay, agreed then.”
Your notes will turn into a list of decisions — incredibly useful later for recaps or disputes about “what we agreed on that day.”

Mission B: Scan for risks/blockers

– What can break this plan if we ignore it?
You’ll tune in to phrases like “We’re stuck because…,” “We still don’t have…,” “The risk is…,” “In case…”
You end up with a map of landmines in the project — gold if you like strategic thinking.

Mission C: Track owners + next steps

– Who does what, by when?
Every time an action appears, you ask yourself, “So who owns this? By when?” If nobody says, you may be the one to ask. That helps you and the team.
Your notes become a ready-made action list that you can drop straight into your planner/task tool after the meeting.

Mission D: One-line summary every 10 minutes

– Every ~10 minutes, stop for 10–20 seconds and write one sentence: “Right now we’re talking about…”

For example, “We’re debating which color palette to use for the new UI,” or “We’re digging into the root cause of why the original deadline slipped.”

This forces your brain to summarize regularly, which keeps you latched on to the content at a decent level even if you don’t catch every detail.

Important: do not over-pick. One mission done well beats five vague intentions. With one mission, you’ll finish the meeting feeling like you got something concrete, instead of feeling like you listened widely and retained nothing.

6) “Check-in Questions” to steer the game (refocus + add value)

No matter how well you prep, there will be times when you start to drift, voices turn into background noise, or the discussion starts looping. In these moments, a short, targeted question can pull you back instantly and help the whole room.

ADHD folks often fear, “If I ask, they’ll know I spaced out.” But many questions are useful regardless of whether you zoned out — because they clarify things for everyone.

Focus on questions in the family of summarize / confirm / what’s next:

  • “Just to make sure I’m clear — are we deciding between A and B right now?”
    → This frames where we are in the decision, instead of letting the conversation float.
  • “If we turn this into next steps, who’s the owner and what’s the deadline?”
    → This shifts things from “sharing opinions” to “deciding what gets done.”
  • “Could we confirm the KPI/definition of done for this work? What exactly needs to happen for us to call it finished?”
    → Massive protection against misunderstanding later, and it sharpens your mental picture of the endpoint.
  • “Does this issue depend on any other team that we need to sync with afterward?”
    → Shows you’re thinking beyond your silo, connecting dots.

When you ask these questions, your brain snaps back to the big picture instantly. You don’t need to replay every word you missed; the answer itself will summarize where you’re at and where you’re heading.

A few small tricks:

  • If you zoned out badly and are afraid you’ll look obvious, frame it as “I want to take accurate notes”:

“So I can write the action items correctly, could we recap that part again?”
Most people read that as attention to detail, not ignorance.

  • In online meetings, if you don’t want to interrupt verbally, type a short version in chat:

“Just to confirm: today’s decision is we go with A, right? Owner: team X, deadline: end of month?”

The main thing is: see your questions as a service to the meeting, not a personal lifeline. That shrinks the guilt and makes it easier to step in at moments where your question genuinely improves clarity.

To sum this block up: during the meeting, you don’t need to be a robot staring and absorbing every second. You need systems that stop you from drifting off the core substance. Active notes keep words from becoming meaningless noise. 

Bookmarking interrupts the shame loop. Micro-movements and chosen fidgets keep your body from rebelling. Engagement hooks and check-in questions give your brain a real part to play in the room.

Put together, these shift you from “quietly trying not to drown” into “someone who actually helps the meeting have structure, summaries, and clear actions.” 

That doesn’t just support your ADHD brain — it helps the entire team at the same time. 💼🧠

If You’ve Zoned Out: How to Come Back Smoothly

The “zoned out” phase in a meeting for someone with ADHD isn’t just a quick daydream and done. It usually comes as a bundle: guilt, a self-insult loop in your head (“Here we go again, I screwed it up again”), fear that others will notice you’re not keeping up, and anxiety that you’ll get called on and have nothing to say. 

Once those feelings kick in, your brain isn’t just drifting away from the meeting content – it’s fully locked into “panic / self-blame” mode, which actually consumes more energy than the meeting itself.

What we need to change is the mindset from “I must never zone out, ever” to “I need a way to come back as fast as possible when I do zone out.” The goal is not 100% continuous focus time; it’s fast, smooth re-entry skills. 

If you can come back in 10–30 seconds, the actual damage is usually tiny, and most of the time nobody even realizes you just went on a mental trip across the universe.

Try viewing “zoning out” as something normal that will happen. The skill you’re training is “coming back in” – this section is your re-entry handbook.

1. Use “Bridge Questions” to jump back at the summary, not the beginning

Instead of trying to rewind in your head (“What did they say a minute ago?”), which usually fails because you weren’t encoding anything at that moment, stop forcing your brain to remember what it does not have. 

That only makes you more panicky. It’s much more effective to accept, “Okay, I missed the middle. Let me jump straight to the current conclusion.”

Bridge Questions are questions you throw into the room so people help pull you back to the current big picture, not the whole story. Scripts that sound professional rather than clueless include:

“Sorry, could we recap this point briefly? What’s the current conclusion so I can write it down correctly?”

Or:

“So I can capture the action items correctly, can I just confirm again that we agreed to… (then you say what you think the conclusion is – if you’re wrong, they’ll correct you).”

The trick is: you don’t have to confess, “I zoned out just now.” You act as if you’re “tidying up the structure” and helping the team be clearer — which is completely normal in long meetings where people often say, “Let’s make sure we’re all aligned here.”

What makes a bridge question smooth is your tone: steady and calm, not apologetic and trembling. Use the tone of 

“the person helping to keep the meeting organized”

 rather than 

“the person who did something wrong and is afraid of getting caught.” 

That reads as professional, not as someone who can’t keep up.

2. Ask for a “Last 30 Seconds Recap” like a pro, not a total rerun

Another quick way to pull yourself back is asking for a short recap instead of a full replay. If you say, “I didn’t catch that, can you say it again?” people feel they have to redo a lot. But if you shrink the scope to “the last 30 seconds” or “the current takeaway,” it feels like a reasonable request that helps everyone.

Use scripts like:

“Could you give a short recap of where we landed just now, so I can make sure I’m on the same page as everyone?”

Or, if you want to focus on a specific piece:

“Could we just recap the timeline part again? I’m worried I wrote the deadlines down wrong.”

When they answer, they’re summarizing for the whole room. Very often others are secretly grateful because they were zoning out too but didn’t dare say anything. Your recap request ends up being a service to the meeting.

The key is to avoid vague, heavy requests like “I didn’t follow, can you go through that again?” Use words like recap, summary, highlight, because that signals “I don’t need every word, I just want the key points” – which is exactly what your ADHD brain needs anyway.

3. Use the right-hand note column to pull yourself back (So what? / Action / Question)

If you’re using the 2-column note system we outlined earlier, your right-hand column becomes a mini-map of the meeting, perfect for the moments you’ve zoned out and want to rejoin without replaying every word.

When you notice you’re gone, pause listening for a second and look down at your own notes. Slowly scan the most recent items in the right column: what actions have you just written, what questions did you note that you haven’t asked, which decisions did you underline?

This does two things at once:

    1. It shifts you from “being lost in your thoughts” back to “what we actually have to do after this.” The right column is full of A: (Actions), Q: (Questions), D: (Decisions), all linked to the outcome you set before the meeting.

    2. It shows you where to jump back into the middle of the story. For example, if the last right-hand entry is Q: Scope of phase 2 still unclear, and people are still talking about phase 2, you can jump in with:

“For phase 2, will we also include… or are we keeping that for a later phase?”

To others, this is a normal follow-up question that sharpens the scope. For you, it’s a shortcut re-entry that skips over the part you missed without needing all the details.

If you get put on the spot unexpectedly, a quick glance at your right column before you answer gives you more to hold onto than just “uhhh…”. 

Usually there’s at least one action or question directly related to you, and you can use that as the starting point of your response.

4. Change the stimulus the right way in online meetings

In online meetings, especially when you’re staring at faces/slides for a long time, an ADHD brain will gradually “fade out” until it decides to jump ship to something more stimulating — other tabs, your phone, private chats. 

That’s the moment where you lose big chunks and coming back gets hard.

Before it gets to that, you can use small stimulus changes that stay within the work context to reset your attention without leaving the meeting:

  • Turn off self-view for a while if you’re exhausting yourself staring at your own face. Once that’s gone, you free up bandwidth to actually listen.
  • Move the meeting window: if it’s normally on your left monitor, drag it to the right, or change the size slightly. A small shift in layout can feel like a scene change to your brain.
  • Stand up for 60 seconds while still listening. Roll your shoulders, stretch your neck, take 2–3 deep breaths. Switching from sitting to standing boosts blood flow and wakes your brain back up, and you’re still fully present in the meeting.

What you want to avoid is any stimulus that yanks you out of the work context altogether: social media, private chats, games, etc. 

Once you go there, the dopamine level is way higher than the meeting, and your brain doesn’t want to come back.

Treat the moment you start to drift as a signal that “it’s time for a movement/visual reset,” not “time to escape to another world.” If you can train yourself to separate these two, the number of full blackouts will drop a lot.

5. Reset your emotional state before you come back (Stop blame → Name state → Re-enter)

Another front ADHD people have to fight on isn’t just the meeting content — it’s the internal voice that starts shredding them the instant they realize,
“I zoned out for a long time,”
with lines like 
“This is work, why can’t you just focus?”
 or 
“Everyone else is fine; I’m the only useless one.”

Once that starts, your brain has no room left for listening, because all its resources are busy handling negative emotions and defending your self-esteem.

Use a tiny 3-step mental routine before rejoining the meeting fully:

  • Stop blame – Don’t let your brain spin the story from “I zoned out” into “I’m a failure.” Freeze it at the neutral fact: “Okay, I zoned out for a bit.” That’s enough.
  • Name state – Label your condition in a flat, factual way: “Tired,” “Brain foggy,” “Overloaded with information.” Naming what’s happening helps you see it as a state, not an identity (“I’m currently foggy” instead of “I’m a mess”).
  • Re-enter action – Pick one concrete action to rejoin: glance at the right-hand note column, ask a bridge question, or write a one-line summary of what you think is happening now and then ask if it’s correct.

Example inner self-talk:

“Okay, I zoned out, maybe 2–3 minutes, feeling a bit foggy. That’s fine. I can still catch the decisions. Let’s ask a question about the next step.”

Accepting without insulting yourself lowers the RSD (rejection sensitivity) you’re inflicting on yourself. That makes space to actually do the useful thing — re-enter — instead of sitting there drowning in guilt while the meeting keeps moving.

6. If you missed a whole chunk: use “after the meeting” to patch the hole

Sometimes you don’t just miss 30–60 seconds; you lose an entire segment — 10–15 minutes where a notification pulled you off, or something someone said triggered you emotionally. 

Pretending nothing happened and forcing yourself to “act normal” afterwards is possible, but you’ll stay stressed because you know you’re missing a big piece of context.

In that case, your priority is to get yourself back in time for the important parts, and then use post-meeting strategies to fill in the gap. For example:

After the meeting, send a short message to someone you trust in the room, like your manager or a teammate:

“I didn’t quite keep up during the budget discussion. Could you summarize the key points for me — roughly what the numbers/scope are now, so I can update my notes correctly?”

If there are meeting minutes or slides, focus on reviewing only the section you know you missed instead of rewatching the entire hour. Open the file and scroll directly to the “Budget” or “Scope” slides, then read them carefully once.

Most importantly, use this as feedback for your system, not proof that you’re “bad.” If you notice you always zone out during the same type of segment — long status updates, someone speaking very fast, etc. — take that as a signal that next time you need extra prep around that spot: plan a specific Engagement Hook for that block, or ask for slides in advance so you can digest the core idea beforehand.

The takeaway in this section is: zoning out in meetings for an ADHD brain is almost more of a “feature” than a “bug.” What separates people who survive meetings well from those who leave feeling wrecked isn’t how many times they drift — it’s how quickly and smoothly they can come back in.

If you practice using bridge questions, asking for bounded recaps, leaning on your right-hand note column, changing stimulus in small ways instead of fleeing to other worlds, and stopping the self-abuse before re-entering, this skill will get sharper. 

You’ll start to feel, “Okay, I’m not focused every second, but my work doesn’t slip, and I still walk out of every meeting with the important info I actually need.”

That’s the real goal of surviving long meetings with ADHD — not becoming a robot who never zones out, but becoming a human who knows exactly how to come back when they do, in a way that feels smooth and highly professional.

After the meeting: 3-minute action capture + follow-up template

The “after the meeting” phase is where ADHD brains tend to mess up the most — even though it’s actually the most valuable window. It’s the moment when all the information has just passed through your ears and is still sitting in working memory. 

If you let 10–20 minutes go by, your brain defaults to what it’s good at: flushing it and repurposing the space for something else.

That’s why so many people have the same experience over and over: you sit in a one-hour meeting, come out exhausted, and when you’re back at your desk you can’t clearly answer, 

“So… what exactly am I supposed to do now?” 

You only remember that you discussed big topics, but the concrete actions are fuzzy. This is exactly what we’re fixing here.

Think of the “3 minutes after the meeting” as the landing for your brain after it’s been circling above a cloud of information for an hour. 

If you don’t land now, the plane won’t crash, but you’ll keep circling, and eventually you’ll have to reconstruct everything later when your energy is already gone — which is much harder.

3-Minute Action Capture (do it immediately, don’t postpone)

The core rule: when the meeting ends, block 3 minutes on purpose. Don’t pick up calls, don’t check messages, don’t open other emails. Treat this 3-minute block as part of the meeting, not extra work. In those 3 minutes, you’re squeezing the important stuff out of your head before it evaporates.

Open the notes you were using and set three clear headings:

Decisions (D): what has actually been decided

For ADHD brains, “We talked about it” and “We decided it” tend to blur together. You need to separate what was said casually from what was actually agreed. Listing Decisions is how you anchor the whole project: it defines how the world has changed after this meeting.

Write them short but specific, for example:

  • “D1: We will use design version B as the main layout.”
  • “D2: Release of version 1 is moved from April → June.”
  • “D3: Real-time notification feature is excluded from phase 1 and moved to phase 2.”

Having “D” as its own section means that when someone later says, “We never agreed on that,” you have something concrete to point to. For yourself, it stops you from carrying only vague impressions of the meeting and gives you clear turning points in the story.

Actions (A): who does what, by when (Owner + Verb + Deadline)

This is the most critical part for ADHD. The problem usually isn’t that you “don’t want to do it,” but that what needs doing was never clarified enough for your brain to start.

Scan your notes and pull out everything that looks like “something that has to happen after this.” Don’t care how long the discussion was — compress it into short, sharp sentences using:

Owner + Verb + Deliverable + Deadline

Examples:

  • “Me: Summarize today’s client requirements into a 1-page brief for dev team by Wednesday 17:00.”
  • “Bee: Send updated budget numbers to #project-abc channel by tomorrow noon.”
  • “Marketing team: Draft 3 content directions for the launch campaign and send to manager by Friday.”

The key: there must be a clear owner, not just “we need to…” or “we should…”. Those floating phrases are guaranteed to vanish for an ADHD brain. Always ask yourself, “Who exactly?” If you don’t know a specific name yet, write the team: “Team A,” “dev side,” “design side,” and refine later.

Almost as important: a deadline. If no exact date was set in the meeting, at least assign a rough timeframe for yourself: “this week,” “before next Friday’s meeting.” If there’s no time frame, an ADHD brain has no idea when to start.

Open Questions (Q): what’s still unclear and who to ask

A good meeting doesn’t have to answer every question. Sometimes its job is simply to surface the right questions and then let people chase them down elsewhere. So you should list what’s still bothering you as Qs, instead of letting them get lost in the noise of your thoughts.

Good Qs look like:

  • “Q1: Not sure if the client will accept the deadline change — who needs to confirm this and how?”
  • “Q2: Do we have enough historical data to compare the impact of the new campaign? Need to ask data team?”
  • “Q3: Are today’s KPIs for the entire campaign or just phase 1?”

Crucially, circle or note who you’ll ask: “ask manager,” “ask finance,” “ask data team.” That way the question doesn’t live in a vacuum; when you open your notes tomorrow, you’ll know where it goes next.

At first glance, this step looks quick. But for ADHD, it’s moving information out of fragile working memory into external memory where you can revisit it without spending energy re-thinking everything. It massively reduces the “I kind of remember… but didn’t write it down” guilt spiral later.

Why “immediately” after the meeting, not “later”?

Because for your brain, “later” = “never” about 80–90% of the time, especially if there’s another meeting, another task, or a notification right afterwards. You’ll be dragged into something else and the intention to “go back and capture actions” just falls off your radar.

The 3 minutes right after the meeting are golden because:

  • You can still hear people’s voices in your head (“They said something like…”).
  • You still remember which parts actually mattered most to you.
  • The emotional tone (urgency, pressure) is still fresh, so you don’t subconsciously downplay the importance of the actions.

If you wait 1–2 hours, you start remembering the meeting in terms of feelings instead of usable details: “There was a lot,” “It felt stressful,” but no clear actions. That’s exactly what 3-minute action capture is designed to prevent.

Follow-up template (send within 10–30 minutes): your brain’s insurance policy

Once you’ve extracted D / A / Q, the next incredibly powerful step, especially for ADHD, is to push that information out of your head into the team’s system via a recap or follow-up message.

Many people hesitate to send recaps because they think:

  • “Isn’t this overkill?”
  • “Surely I don’t need to be the one summarizing.”
  • “Will they think I’m attention-seeking?”

In reality, teams are desperate for people who can summarize and move things forward. For you, it’s how you stop your brain from having to hold everything by itself — the whole room becomes your backup memory.

Template A: Short professional recap

Overall idea: send a short message (email / Slack / Teams) with the same three blocks as your action capture, but formatted for others to read easily.

Subject line
Use a consistent format so people instantly recognize it as a recap:

“Recap + Next Steps: [Meeting/Project Name] – [Date]”

For example:

“Recap + Next Steps: Marketing Sprint Planning – 23 Jan 2026”

Body – 3 sections

Decisions:

Bullet points, each one a full sentence, spelling out both “what we chose” and “what we didn’t,” if relevant.

Example:

  • “We decided to use design version B as the primary layout for the landing page, keeping only the testimonial section at the bottom from version A. No A/B test in phase one.”

Action items:

Map the As you wrote in your notes into a list everyone can see, using [Owner] – [Action] – [Deadline] in full sentences.

Examples:

  • “Me – Turn today’s client discussion into a 1-page requirement summary for the dev team and post it in #project-landing by Wednesday 17:00.”
  • “Bee – Send updated budget figures (post-deadline-change version) to all stakeholders by tomorrow noon.”
  • “Dev team – Estimate effort required if we include the real-time notification feature in phase two and share estimates by Friday.”

Open questions / risks:

Here you combine your Qs with the risks raised in the room or ones you realized while summarizing.

Examples:

  • “We still don’t have a clear plan for how to communicate the deadline change to the client with minimal impact — we’ll need a separate sync with the sales team.”
  • “We don’t currently have baseline performance data to compare old vs. new landing page — we’ll need to collect baseline data over the first two weeks post-launch.”

At the end, add a standard safety sentence for yourself:

“If I missed anything or misunderstood any point, please reply in this thread so we can correct and align.”

This sentence is your shield. If, two weeks later, someone claims “we never agreed to move the deadline,” you can pull up this recap as evidence that everyone saw it and had the opportunity to correct it.

For your ADHD brain, shifting everything from “things I have to remember” to “things stored in our shared system” removes a huge amount of weight from your shoulders.

Template B: When the meeting was a mess and nothing is clear

Sometimes you leave a meeting thinking, “What was that?” No one summarized, no one clearly stated decisions. It sounds like a lot was discussed, but there’s no obvious shared decision at the end. 

This is especially dangerous for ADHD — you’ll move on to other tasks, and in a few days someone says, “As we agreed in that meeting…” and you have no idea what they’re referring to.

In this case, your follow-up doesn’t pretend to be a final “fact recap.” It acts as a proposal of current understanding and invites corrections.

Structure:

Start with a humble but clear framing:

“So the team can move forward, I’ll summarize my current understanding from today’s meeting. If anything’s off, please correct it in this thread.”

Then use the same three sections, but lean on phrases like “I understand that we probably agreed…”

  • “What I understand we seem to have agreed on:”
  • “What still needs a decision (no clear answer yet):”
  • “Actions I think each person/team is taking next (please confirm):”

Example message:

“So the team can move forward, I’ll summarize my understanding from the meeting:

Things that seem to be agreed:
– We’ll move the first release from April to June so we can incorporate the updated requirements from client A.

Things that still need a decision:
– We haven’t decided whether to push the real-time notification feature into phase one or keep it for phase two (there were arguments on both sides).

Actions I understand so far (please confirm):
– Dev team: Estimate the effort if we include real-time notifications in phase one, and share that with the group by Friday.
– Me: Summarize the updated requirements from client A by Wednesday.
– Marketing team: Draft at least two options for how we’ll communicate the deadline extension to the client by end of this week.

If I’ve missed or misunderstood anything, please correct it in this thread so I can update my notes.”

This kind of message does three things at once:

  • Stops you from carrying the anxiety alone about “Did I understand correctly?”
  • Forces the team to put “what we think we agreed on” into clear words.
  • Prevents future drama when someone vaguely invokes “what we said that day” and no one can remember what actually happened.

For an ADHD brain, this isn’t extra work — it’s life support

From a generic productivity standpoint, action capture + follow-up might look like additional steps. From an ADHD standpoint, it’s installing a second brain for every meeting.

Because your brain:

  • Is not built to store raw data in your head for long.
  • Easily confuses “stuff we talked about” with “stuff we actually decided.”
  • Is very likely to forget actions unless they’re written clearly and plugged into another system like a planner or task manager.

The 3-minute action capture is moving everything out of your head into notes as fast as possible.
The follow-up template is connecting those notes to the rest of the team so they share responsibility for remembering and can correct you.

Together, they turn meetings from “energy-sucking black holes” into “starting points for clear execution.” For someone with ADHD, this is the difference between a workday where you feel like you have some control, and a workday that ends with 

“I’m exhausted and have no idea what I actually did.”

If you only change one meeting-related habit, make it this:

“Never leave a meeting without doing a 3-minute action capture + sending a follow-up within the first 30 minutes.”

Just that one rule will make your entire year of working life noticeably lighter. 🔧🧠

Let’s talk

If you’ve read this far, it means you don’t just want to “survive until the meeting ends” — you want to use meetings in a way that respects your brain’s energy. 

Try picking just 2–3 techniques from this article for your next meeting (for example, setting an outcome, using 2-column notes, and doing a 3-minute action capture) and then gradually add more until it becomes your standard system.

If you feel like the problem isn’t just meetings, but your whole day — planning, scheduling, following through — then it’s worth checking out the posts on planners for people who hate planning, time blindness, and surviving meeting-heavy work cultures. 

Together, they’ll help you build a work system that actually fits your ADHD brain instead of forcing you to cram yourself into someone else’s system and blaming yourself when it doesn’t work.

FAQ

1. Do I have to stare at the screen the whole time to look professional?

No. Active participation is “asking, summarizing, and capturing actions,” not “holding a serious face for 90 minutes straight.”

2. If it’s an online meeting and I keep doom-scrolling, what can I do?

Set up “temptation barriers”: put your phone out of reach, close personal tabs, and make your note template the main thing your hands interact with throughout the meeting.

3. Will moving around or using a fidget look rude?

If it’s quiet and non-disruptive, it’s a focus strategy, not bad manners. Choose tools that “make no noise, don’t stand out, don’t catch eyes.”

4. I’m too embarrassed to ask when I zone out — I’m scared I’ll look clueless.

Use “team structure” questions like “Can we confirm the next step/owner?” That looks like leadership, not ignorance.

5. The meeting is so long I end up with a headache. Any quick fixes?

Water + micro-movements + small stimulus changes (stand for 60 seconds, change posture, look into the distance for 20 seconds) really can reset your brain.

6. I write everything down and still don’t know what to do after the meeting.

The problem is you’re capturing “words,” not “Decisions/Actions/Questions.” Switch to that trio and use a 2-column layout.

7. If the agenda is vague or nonexistent, what should I do before joining?

Set your own outcome, then prep two universal questions: “What’s today’s decision?” and “Who’s the owner/next step?” Then steer the game with your recap after the meeting.

8. Should I tell my boss I have ADHD to adjust how meetings work?

It depends on how safe your workplace feels. You can ask for things that help everyone without disclosing: sharing agendas in advance, clear action items, timeboxing, or short breaks.

READ ADHD in ADULTS

References

  • Tucha, L., et al. (2015). Sustained attention in adult ADHD: time-on-task effects of various measures of attention. Shows that adults with ADHD have medium-sized deficits in selective and divided attention, especially as tasks drag on over time.
  • Head, J., et al. (2014). Sustained attention failures are primarily due to resource limitations. Finds that higher cognitive load and monotonous tasks increase attention lapses, supporting the idea that “long, slow, high-load work” makes zoning out much more likely.
  • Dotare, M., et al. (2020). Attention Networks in ADHD Adults after Working Memory Training. Confirms that adults with ADHD often have problems with executive functioning and attention networks that directly affect tasks requiring continuous focus, such as long meetings.
  • London Neurocognitive Clinic. Executive Functioning Challenges in ADHD. Explains how ADHD disrupts planning, prioritizing, and emotional regulation — all of which are directly related to tolerating and functioning in long meetings, consistent with the concept of executive dysfunction.
  • ADDA. Executive Function Disorder & ADHD. Summarizes how adults with ADHD often struggle to stay on track, remember instructions, and follow through, and how they benefit from external systems like action lists and post-meeting recaps.
  • Unlocking ADHD / ADD.org / workplace guides: Recommend accommodations such as advance agendas, breaks between tasks, and adjustments to the work environment to help with focus and meeting load in people with ADHD.
  • AP News. How to manage ADHD at work and turn it into a strength. Discusses practical tools like fidget devices, short breaks, asking for meeting topics in advance, and body doubling as ways to survive meeting-heavy work cultures.

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