Social-Evaluation Type

Nerdyssey November 04, 2025

🧠 Overview 

“Social-Evaluation Type” is a state in which the human brain “learns to tie its sense of self-worth” to “the gaze and evaluation of other people” so tightly that it becomes imbalanced — as if every time someone looks at us, the brain instantly scans: “What do they think of me?”

1️⃣ In everyday life, most people care about their image to some degree. But in this group, the feeling of being “good or bad” fluctuates in real time according to others’ responses — facial expressions, gestures, words, and even silence.

2️⃣ When they receive acceptance or praise, the brain releases dopamine and endorphins, giving a temporary boost of confidence. But when they feel ignored, criticized, or receive no reaction at all, the limbic system immediately interprets it as: “I’m being rejected.”

3️⃣ The pain of being negatively evaluated doesn’t just “exist in the mind”; it takes place in the brain itself — especially in the anterior cingulate cortex (ACC), the same region that processes physical pain.

4️⃣ This is why “being ignored in a meeting” or “being left on read on social media” can feel like a punch in the chest — because the brain doesn’t clearly distinguish between “physical pain” and “the pain of being cut off socially.”

5️⃣ People in this group live in a constant state of hyper-awareness of being evaluated — walking past someone can feel like being scanned, judged, or measured, even when others are actually not paying attention at all.

6️⃣ This preoccupation gradually distorts self-perception. The brain starts to believe: “I am what other people see” more than “I am what I truly feel or believe about myself.”

7️⃣ Over time, self-worth becomes a “volatile value” — on days they receive praise, they feel worthy and want to try new things. On days they are criticized or overlooked, they feel invisible, as if they don’t deserve to be there.

8️⃣ This cycle generates a pattern of self-referential thinking loops, such as replaying embarrassing scenes or reviewing their own words dozens of times long after the event has ended.

9️⃣ The medial prefrontal cortex (mPFC) works together with the amygdala to create emotional memories tied to the feeling of “being judged” — and this system can be triggered easily by even small events, such as a neutral or blank look.

1️⃣0️⃣ Remaining in this state continuously keeps cortisol chronically elevated, leading to physical effects like headaches, muscle tension, bodily stiffness, insomnia, or a sense of fatigue “for no clear reason.”

1️⃣1️⃣ Some people respond by trying to “control their image” excessively — watching every word they say, rehearsing lines before entering a meeting room, or spending a long time dressing and checking their appearance before leaving the house.

1️⃣2️⃣ But the more they try to “prevent anyone from seeing their flaws,” the more exhausted and sensitive the brain becomes to even small mistakes — because every mistake equals “a threat to my self-worth.”

1️⃣3️⃣ Many begin to avoid being in the spotlight as a way to escape being seen — yet this avoidance reinforces the belief: “I’m not good enough to be seen,” which strengthens the fear in the long term.

1️⃣4️⃣ The foundation of Social-Evaluation Type is often related to childhood experiences of having to “please others” in order to receive acceptance — for example, parents only praising when grades are high, or harshly scolding when the child “brings shame” to the family.

1️⃣5️⃣ The brain therefore learns that “being seen positively = safety” and “being seen negatively = danger” — this social safety mechanism is wired into the same survival circuits as other mammalian brains.

1️⃣6️⃣ In the modern era, where the online world exposes us to constant evaluation (likes, comments, comparisons), this system is triggered far more often than the brain’s natural capacity can handle.

1️⃣7️⃣ People with Social-Evaluation Type are not necessarily seeking attention; they are seeking “assurance that I am not being hated or excluded from the group,” which is a deeply biological need of the human brain.

1️⃣8️⃣ When they do not receive that assurance, the brain switches into “social alarm mode” — like an internal siren telling them to do something to restore their social status, such as explaining themselves, apologizing, or trying harder to make others like them again.

1️⃣9️⃣ If this cycle is not understood and processed therapeutically, it can progress into social anxiety, rejection-sensitive dysphoria (RSD), or depressive rumination.

2️⃣0️⃣ Healing is not about “stopping caring what others think” altogether, but about training the brain to differentiate: “being seen negatively” ≠ “being worthless” — and building self-worth on a foundation of self-understanding, not solely on other people’s gaze.

🔍 Core Symptoms 

Social-Evaluation Type is not just “being a bit anxious when people look at you.”
It is a patterned interaction of emotions, thoughts, and behaviors that forms a loop in the brain between “perceiving social threat” and “evaluating self-worth.”

Below are the core symptoms that commonly appear deeply and repeatedly in daily life for people in this group 👇

1️⃣ Preoccupation with “How are people seeing me?” beyond a healthy level

The brain of people in this group works as if it has a “social radar” constantly spinning — tracking every facial expression, gesture, word, and even others’ silence.

  • After speaking or sending a message, the brain replays the scene over and over:
    “Did I sound too harsh?”
    “Did they make that face because they were annoyed with me?”
  • Behaviors include checking reactions / likes / comments more often than average — not because they crave fame, but because they need “evidence that people still like me.”
  • When there is no response, the brain sends a signal: “Danger is coming,” causing the heart to race and the body to enter a mild fight–flight mode.
  • As a result, mood fluctuates throughout the day according to “the index of other people’s gaze” more than according to their real-life goals.

2️⃣ Constantly interpreting ambiguous signals in a negative way (Negative Interpretation Bias)

This is an automatic mechanism of the amygdala, which is highly sensitive to social threat. When it encounters unclear signals, the brain chooses to “assume the worst first.”

  • Slow reply from a friend → “They must be tired of me.”
  • Boss not smiling → “They’re disappointed in me.”
  • Someone looking neutrally → “They must think I look bad.”
  • Even online silence can become a threat:
    “Everyone saw my post but no one liked it = they don’t like me.”

These thoughts trigger the Anterior Cingulate Cortex (ACC) to send “social pain” signals — using the same circuit as physical pain.

3️⃣ Emotional crashes when feeling negatively evaluated

A small piece of negative feedback can become a “domino of emotion” that ruins the whole day — as if the brain is pre-programmed to interpret criticism as equivalent to “rejection of my entire self.”

  • When a boss gives a small critique like
    “This might need a bit more polishing,”
    the brain hears: “They’re disappointed in me again.”

  • Physical symptoms may appear: rapid heartbeat, sweating, cold hands — like a mini panic response.
  • After the event, the brain continues replaying it for hours or even days.
  • Some people develop coping strategies such as overwork, perfectionism, or humor masking to try to “soften the fear of being seen as bad.”

4️⃣ Exerting excessive effort to control image (Impression Management Overdrive)

Because they fear being judged, the brain commands them to invest enormous energy in managing everything others might see or perceive.

  • Spending hours thinking before making a single post.
  • Over-checking appearance, worrying about comments like “You look so tired today.”
  • Trying to guess “what style people like” and adjusting themselves to match every group, even when it contradicts their inner truth.
  • When this continues for a long time, the insula (self-awareness) becomes confused between “my authentic self” and “the self society wants to see.”
  • The result is a feeling of exhaustion and inner emptiness after social interactions, because they have been performing a “safe version” of themselves the whole time.

5️⃣ Avoiding situations where they might be seen / judged

To protect themselves from the pain of being evaluated, the brain automatically creates avoidance strategies.

  • Refusing to present, not daring to share work, not asking for feedback.
  • Dodging the spotlight, or using humor to deflect when praised.
  • Some people refuse promotions because they fear increased scrutiny from others.

This avoidance offers short-term relief, but in the long run it strengthens the belief: “I can’t handle being seen,” and gradually erodes confidence.

6️⃣ Constant upward social comparison

The brain of this type struggles to convert others’ success into inspiration. Instead, it translates it into “evidence that I am less than.”

  • Seeing a friend praised → the brain activates the amygdala and ACC as if they themselves were being excluded from the group.
  • They feel “Everyone is better than me at everything,” even when their actual performance is equal.
  • These comparisons often arise automatically in the default mode network (DMN) — the part of the brain that spins around self-related thoughts.
  • The more they scroll through social media, the more this belief is reinforced: “Everyone else is more accepted than I am.”

7️⃣ Mood tied more to feedback than to real-life events

This is the hallmark of Social-Evaluation Type — daily mood depends not on real circumstances, but on the perception of “How did people see me today?”

  • On days with praise → energy, confidence, good mood, desire to work and socialize.
  • On days with no mention or a small criticism → exhaustion, burnout, the wish to disappear.

Inside the brain, the reward system (ventral striatum) and cortisol system move in opposite directions —
Praise = dopamine surge / Criticism = cortisol spike.

The result is a pattern of “dopamine-dependent self-worth” — they must rely on external validation in order to feel valuable.

Overall, these symptoms show an identity that has become “hooked onto external perception,” until the brain forgets its own self-validation mechanisms that should arise from within.

📋 Diagnostic Criteria 

Although this is not an official DSM-5 or ICD-11 diagnosis, it can be used as a conceptual framework to describe the severity and pattern of Social-Evaluation Type in a structured way.

⏳ Duration and Continuity

  • The pattern of preoccupation with being evaluated must persist for at least 6 months.

  • Symptoms must appear in multiple social contexts, not just a single situation, for example:

    • Work (meetings, presentations)
    • Online (social media)
    • Personal relationships (partner, friends, family)
    • Public places (restaurants, school, stage, job interviews)

⚖️ Core Criteria (at least 4 out of 6 domains)

1️⃣ Post-event rumination after social situations

  • Replaying conversations in the mind repeatedly.
  • Interpreting themselves negatively, e.g., “I looked so stupid,” “They probably hate me now.”
  • Spending more than 1–2 days thinking about the same event.

2️⃣ High anxiety before / during / after being evaluated (Anticipatory anxiety)

  • Heart racing, sweating, cold hands before presenting.
  • Mentally rehearsing escape plans or responses in advance.
  • After the event, replaying it to check for mistakes.

3️⃣ Mood and self-worth swing with feedback (Self-worth fluctuation)

  • Mood improves immediately when praised.
  • Feeling worthless or wanting to disappear when criticized.
  • Lacking a stable baseline of self-esteem.

4️⃣ Spending excessive time and energy preparing image (Over-preparation / Impression control)

  • Rehearsing what to say many times.
  • Over-checking physical appearance.
  • Deleting posts out of fear of being misunderstood.

5️⃣ Chronic comparison with others

  • Feeling bad when others receive recognition.
  • Viewing others as “more valuable” in nearly every dimension.
  • Automatic self-criticism even without evidence.

6️⃣ Frequent checking for social feedback (Social feedback checking)

  • Checking the phone often for messages / reactions.
  • Watching facial expressions in conversations.
  • Feeling anxious or hurt when there is no feedback.

💔 Impact on Life

  • Work / Study:
    Not daring to share opinions; overworking to avoid criticism.
  • Relationships:
    Insecure about how they are seen by partner / friends / family, leading to misinterpretation or overreaction.
  • Mental health:
    Developing social anxiety, RSD, depression, or burnout from overcompensating for fragile self-worth.
  • Physical health:
    Chronic stress from elevated cortisol — insomnia, headaches, muscle pain.

🚫 Exclusion Criteria

  • Symptoms cannot be fully explained by other psychiatric conditions such as Psychosis or Bipolar mania.
  • But they can co-occur (comorbidity) with Social Anxiety Disorder, Generalized Anxiety, Major Depression, or ADHD (especially in those with Rejection Sensitivity).

🧩 Severity Spectrum (suggested for explanatory use)

  • Mild: Overthinking sometimes, but still functioning relatively well in daily life.
  • Moderate: Noticeable impact on confidence and behavior, e.g., avoiding the spotlight or posting less.
  • Severe: Persistent social avoidance, intense mood swings, feeling worthless without clear external cause.
  • Chronic / Comorbid: Combined with RSD or Social Anxiety, evolves into long-term anxiety and depression.

🧭 Non-clinical Self Observation

Readers can use these to reflect on themselves, for example:

  • “How much do other people’s opinions influence how I feel about myself each day?”
  • “Do I fear being misunderstood so much that I avoid situations where I should express myself?”
  • “Have I ever felt like praise is my oxygen?”

If the answer is “yes” to many of these, it may indicate a level of Social-Evaluation Type that is worth understanding and caring for.

In summary, these two sections — Core Symptoms and Diagnostic Criteria — work together:

  • Core Symptoms reveal the emotion–brain loops driving behavior.
  • Diagnostic Criteria map the continuity and severity of the state, showing that this is not just “being shy or oversensitive,” but a psycho-neural structure the brain has built to protect us from “the threat of being evaluated” beyond a balanced level.

🧩 Subtypes or Specifiers

Not every subtype must be used, but they help organize the material and sub-series more clearly.

1️⃣ Appearance-Evaluation Focused Type

Core theme: Fear of being judged for “appearance / body / body image.”

  • Worrying that others think: “You’re fat / old / unattractive / not good-looking enough.”
  • Spending a lot of time on clothing, checking appearance, avoiding photos or being seen in public.
  • Strong triggers: unflattering photos, comments about weight or looks, comparison to people who are frequently praised for their appearance.

2️⃣ Moral-Character Evaluation Type

Core theme: Fear of being seen as “a bad person / selfish / morally disgusting.”

  • Being extremely cautious with words out of fear of being labeled toxic or insensitive.
  • Ruminating when they feel they might have hurt someone.
  • Using harsh self-talk when they believe they have done wrong: “I’m such a terrible person,” “I don’t deserve good things.”

3️⃣ Likeability / Popularity Evaluation Type

Core theme: Self-worth depends on “being liked / being wanted by the group.”

  • Fear of being ignored, replaced in the friend group, or becoming the “backup option.”
  • High sensitivity to group chat dynamics, friend circles, and workplace politics.
  • May overextend themselves beyond their limits just to remain “the loved one / an important member of the group.”

4️⃣ Competence / Intelligence Evaluation Type

Needs to be distinguished carefully from Performance-Triggered Type:

  • Social-Evaluation focus = “Do they see me as intelligent overall?”
  • Performance-Triggered focus = “Is this piece of work good enough?”

Core theme: Fear of being seen as “stupid / uninteresting / lacking knowledge.”

  • Avoiding academic or intellectual discussions out of fear of not being able to answer.
  • Preferring to hide away and study excessively so that no one will “catch them not knowing something.”

🧬 Brain & Neurobiology

“Social–Evaluation Type” is not merely a feeling of being a bit anxious about how others see you.
It is a systemic outcome of out-of-sync coordination between multiple brain circuits within what we call the Social Brain Network and the Self–Referential Processing System — systems that translate social stimuli into “information about my value as a person.”

When these systems operate beyond balance, the brain enters a “hyper-evaluation” mode — constantly thinking and feeling as though it is being judged, even in situations where no one is actually watching.

1️⃣ Amygdala — the emotional threat detector

  • Functions like an “emotional alarm system” that detects threats from facial expressions, tone of voice, and others’ body language.
  • In Social-Evaluation Type, the amygdala is overly sensitive to social threat cues such as disappointed expressions, lack of a smile, or neutrality.
  • A single glance interpreted as “unfriendly” can trigger physiological responses (↑ heart rate, ↑ cortisol).
  • When repeatedly activated, the amygdala sends constant signals to other brain regions to interpret events negatively: “They’re not pleased with me.”
  • The result is hypervigilance — over-alertness to threat, even in objectively safe social environments.

2️⃣ Medial Prefrontal Cortex (mPFC) & Ventromedial PFC — the self-evaluation hub

  • These regions handle self-referential thinking and self-appraisal (evaluating one’s own worth).
  • When working with the amygdala, they help us answer: “What does this event say about me?”
  • In Social-Evaluation Type, the connection mPFC ↔ amygdala is often over-synchronized:
    → The brain interprets every piece of feedback as referring to “my entire self,” not just a behavior.
  • This creates a self-criticism loop — recurring thoughts like:
    “I didn’t speak well again,”
    “I must be so annoying.”
  • Within the reward system (ventral striatum), responses to acceptance are blunted → they need increasingly more praise to feel “enough.”

3️⃣ Anterior Cingulate Cortex (ACC) — the social pain processor

  • The dorsal ACC (dACC) detects rejection or exclusion from the group.
  • fMRI studies show that social exclusion or being ignored activates the dACC in a similar way to physical pain.
  • This explains why phrases like “I don’t care about you” or “You’re not interesting” can feel like a stab in the chest.
  • The ACC also works with the insula to send interoceptive signals — body sensations like chest tightness or stomach ache when stressed.
  • When frequently activated, the brain learns that “being evaluated = pain,” reinforcing a powerful avoidance system.

4️⃣ Insular Cortex — translating bodily signals into inner feeling

  • The insula links bodily sensations with emotional states (interoception).
  • When they feel disliked → heart racing, stomach clenching → the insula interprets this as “I am not safe.”
  • In Social-Evaluation Type, the insula is co-activated with the amygdala, generating “body memories” of shame.
  • That’s why some people instantly feel shaky, sweaty, or their voice trembles as soon as they feel watched.

5️⃣ Temporoparietal Junction (TPJ) & Superior Temporal Sulcus (STS) — the mind-reading system

  • These areas are central to Theory of Mind — understanding that other people have their own thoughts and feelings.
  • In Social-Evaluation Type, this system is often over-active in combination with a negativity bias:
    → leading to chronic negative mind-reading, such as:
    “They must be annoyed with me,”
    “That look means they hate me.”
  • When TPJ links with the amygdala in a negative mode, it creates an Over-Mentalizing Negative Loop
    → over-analyzing facial expressions and words to the point of unending anxiety.

6️⃣ Default Mode Network (DMN) — the self-focused thought loop

  • DMN works when the brain is “doing nothing in particular” but is thinking about self and others.
  • It includes mPFC, PCC, precuneus, and TPJ — the core of self-reflection.
  • In typical brains, DMN quiets down during focused tasks.
  • In Social-Evaluation Type, DMN stays active too often.
  • This leads to self-referential rumination — replaying embarrassing moments or others’ words repeatedly.
  • The more time spent alone, the more thinking escalates; it feels like the brain is constantly in “auto-replay mode.”

7️⃣ HPA-Axis (Hypothalamus–Pituitary–Adrenal) — the stress system

  • When feeling evaluated or rejected, the hypothalamus signals the pituitary → stimulating the adrenal glands to release cortisol.
  • Repeated activation keeps cortisol chronically high → mental fatigue, reduced concentration, lowered immunity.
  • Long-term, this leads to psychosomatic symptoms: muscle tension, headaches, insomnia.
  • Children who grow up under frequent evaluation tend to develop a higher baseline cortisol level → the autonomic nervous system (ANS) reacts strongly even to minor events.

8️⃣ Neural Synchrony — out-of-sync brain waves

  • Research suggests that people with high social anxiety or self-consciousness show abnormal synchrony of theta and beta waves between the amygdala and mPFC.
  • These waves are associated with threat detection and emotion regulation.
  • When their synchrony is imbalanced, the brain gets stuck in a state of “I know I’m overthinking, but I can’t stop.”

In summary, the brain circuits in Social-Evaluation Type reflect a “mis-timed connection” between threat detectors (amygdala, ACC, insula) and self-evaluation hubs (mPFC, DMN).
→ As a result, every piece of social feedback is translated as a threat to self-worth.
→ This produces fear, pain, shame, and endless efforts to manage image and hide flaws.

🧱 Causes & Risk Factors 

Social-Evaluation Type does not arise from a single cause.
It is the combined outcome of:

  • Social experiences
  • Personality and genetics
  • Long-term neural adaptation

Below is a breakdown of the mechanisms involved, from family to modern culture.

1️⃣ Childhood / Family Experiences

1.1 Families that overemphasize “image and achievement”

  • Children learn: “To receive love, I must perform well / look good / not bring shame.”
  • As they grow, the brain internalizes these conditions → self-worth becomes dependent on how others see them.

1.2 Conditional Acceptance in parenting

  • For example, parents praise only when the child comes first in class, but respond with indifference to average performance.
  • The child’s brain learns that emotional warmth comes only with “social rewards.”

1.3 Criticism and comparison in childhood

  • Phrases like “Look at how well other kids do,” or “Don’t embarrass the family,”
  • Create associative memory: “Mistakes = public shame.”

1.4 Lack of safe space for authentic expression

  • If home is not a place where feelings can be expressed → the child develops a mask early on.
  • Later, the mask becomes a neural habit (camouflaging pattern) for survival in social environments.

2️⃣ School / Peer Experiences

2.1 Social bullying / relational aggression

  • Being laughed at in class, mocked for appearance, or excluded from groups.
  • Each incident activates the ACC and amygdala → forming strong emotional memories.
  • The brain becomes a “rejection detector,” always on alert.

2.2 Performance-based praise

  • Compliments that focus on results (“You’re so smart, you won again”) instead of effort.
  • The brain learns: “I am good only when others approve.”
  • This carries the Social-Evaluation pattern into adulthood.

2.3 Highly competitive school climates

  • Ranking systems, public grade announcements, and comparison-heavy environments all reinforce image and social shame.

3️⃣ Temperament & Baseline Personality

  • Children with Behavioral Inhibition — those whose amygdala is naturally more reactive to threat — are more prone to developing social fear.
  • Personality traits like High Neuroticism / High Self-Consciousness / Low Self-Compassion → increase vulnerability.
  • People with a strong Approval-Seeking Personality are especially at risk in competitive environments.
  • Genetic factors such as polymorphisms in 5-HTTLPR (serotonin transporter) and COMT Val158Met (dopamine metabolism) have been linked to stronger responses to social feedback.

4️⃣ Neurodevelopmental & Mental Health Factors

  • Individuals with ADHD / ASD / Specific Learning Disorder / Developmental Coordination Disorder
    often grow up with a persistent sense of “not fitting the norm.”
  • Repeated criticism in childhood drives the brain to build a defensive schema:
    “I must please others to be safe.”
  • When combined with Rejection-Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), a double-loop emerges: emotional hyperreactivity + harsh social self-criticism.
  • Depressive episodes in adolescence can reduce ventral striatum activity → resulting in lower reward response to praise and a greater need for external validation.

5️⃣ Culture and Social Environment

5.1 Honor & shame cultures

  • Societies that value image heavily — “Don’t shame the family,” “Always look good in others’ eyes” —
increase the risk of developing a Social-Evaluation schema.

5.2 Digital society that quantifies worth

  • Likes, comments, followers give the brain real-time feedback 24/7.
  • Every dip in engagement triggers the amygdala as if their value is being downgraded.
  • As the brain becomes addicted to this feedback loop, the dopamine system is trained to respond mainly to external validation.
  • The longer they use social media without awareness, the more chronic Social-Evaluation patterns become.

5.3 Harshly critical environments / cancel culture

  • Fear of saying one wrong thing and being publicly condemned teaches the brain: “Don’t speak, don’t stand out.”
  • Leads to self-silencing, even in genuinely safe friend groups.

6️⃣ Other Contributing Factors

  • Lack of emotionally secure role models.
  • Loss of important relationships in adolescence → the brain links “being abandoned” with “being unworthy.”
  • Use of stimulants such as caffeine or alcohol may temporarily heighten sensitivity to feedback.
  • Sleep deprivation / hormonal imbalance (e.g., low estrogen in women) can increase amygdala responsiveness to social threat.

🔄 Systemic Summary

Level Main Factors Effect on Brain / Behavior
Biological Genetics, neurotransmitter sensitivity, HPA overdrive Amygdala & ACC hyperreactivity
Psychological Core belief: “I am valuable only when others approve” Self-criticism, avoidance, social vigilance
Social Culture, social media, high expectations Chronic exposure to evaluation
Developmental Conditional parenting, bullying Consolidation of social pain memories

All of this together leads the brain to “believe” that negative social perception is a threat to survival.

And that is the deep root of Social-Evaluation Type — the brain does not seek praise just for happiness,
but for a sense of safety in having a place and a self in the world.

🩺 Treatment & Management — Approaches

This does not replace treatment by a psychiatrist / clinical psychologist.
It is a framework for explaining the overall picture to readers.

1. Psychoeducation — Naming the Circuit

  • Help people see that “What’s happening is a brain interpretation loop, not a personal failure.”
  • Map the chain: Event → Interpretation → Emotion → Avoidant behavior.

2. CBT / Schema Therapy for Social-Evaluation

  • Work with core beliefs such as “If others don’t like me, I have no value.”
  • Challenge automatic thoughts that over-interpret feedback negatively.
  • Use behavioral experiments, e.g., posting something imperfect and observing real outcomes.

3. Compassion-Focused Therapy / Self-Compassion Practice

  • Train the shift from self-criticism → self-support.
  • Use imagery / internal scripts to transform the inner voice from “the boss scolding me” into “a kind friend.”

4. Gradual Exposure to Social Evaluation

  • List feared evaluation situations from mild → severe.
  • Practice entering these situations step by step, while observing thoughts without escaping immediately.

  • For example:

    • Start with short comments in a small online group →
    • Speaking briefly in a small team meeting →
    • Full presentation in front of a larger group.

5. Social Media Management

  • Set usage boundaries so online evaluation doesn’t swallow self-worth.

  • Examples:

    • Limit times for checking metrics.
    • Turn off some notifications.
    • Avoid reading all comments on days when mental state is fragile.

6. Psychiatric Medication (when severe / comorbid)

  • When Social-Evaluation Type co-occurs with significant depression, social anxiety, or generalized anxiety and causes major life impairment,
a doctor may consider SSRI / SNRI, etc., alongside psychotherapy.

7. Building “Non-Evaluative Spaces”

  • Create relationships and spaces that are low-judgment — groups that focus on listening, or activities without competition.
  • This helps the brain learn: “I am worth more than numbers, rankings, or other people’s metrics.”

📝 Notes — Key Points

  • Social-Evaluation Type is not “just shyness.”
  • It is a patterned structure of thought and emotion that ties life tightly to others’ gaze.
  • It can co-exist with many conditions such as RSD, ADHD, ASD, Social Anxiety, Depression.
  • It is crucial to distinguish it from Performance-Triggered Type:
    • Performance Type = collapses when “the work fails.”
    • Social-Evaluation Type = collapses when “they feel seen negatively,” even if the work is objectively fine.
  • Without addressing the core belief about self-worth, the cycle tends to repeat — even if they change environments, jobs, or partners.
  • The goal is not to “stop caring about other people’s opinions” 100%,

  • but to reduce the power of others’ gaze:

From: “They don’t like me = I am worthless.”
To: “They may not like me → that’s okay, I still have inherent worth.”

📚 Reference (Academic & Conceptual Sources)

A collection of neuroscience and psychological works on social pain, self-worth regulation, and social evaluation models.

Neuroscience & Brain Circuits

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Psychological Models

  • Clark, D. M., & Wells, A. (1995). A cognitive model of social phobia. In R. G. Heimberg et al. (Eds.), Social phobia: Diagnosis, assessment, and treatment. Guilford Press.
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